21st November 2008

How to Flirt, how to tell if they are flirting

Flirting is the best part of a relationship, and overwhelmingly exciting just before a new relationship. Here are some simple rules I found to keep in mind when you’re flirting with some one, and how to know if they are flirting with you:

Eye Contact

-If the pupils are dilated and eye contact is maintained things are going well!!
-Eye contact combined with an arched eye brow is a sign they are flirting
-Winking! this is always playful!
-Rapid eye movement and blinking = they can’t get enough of you
-Eye contact that is held longer than usual… Men usually look away after about 1 sec.

Lips and Hair signals:

-Playing with hair (stroking or toying motion)
-Eye contact while they are playing with thier hair= pretending its you touching them
-If they touch your hair at any time
-Lots of smiling, open mouthed and teeth flashing
-Lip licking
-Puckering lips or blowin you a simulated kiss form
-Any form of touch of the lips or teeth with tongue

Body Language

-The displaying or thrusting of chest or breasts outwards while making eye contact (Warning! Guys, don’t look down at what is presented..its a test)
-Holding eye contact while doing something else = they are imagining your doing it with them
-Leaning into a conversation…facing towards you and into you means they are fully concentrated on you
-Open legged posture facing you (guys are relaxed with you, and subcanciously drawing a girls eye to the genitals)

Spoken Hints:

-Their manerism (tone and speed of conversation) suddenly mimics your own
-laughing at every little joke (no matter how bad)
-Questioning tone of your voice (“why did you say it like that?”) means they want further information
-Attention is given to you, despite who is around you

Have Fun! That’s what flirting is all about!


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21st November 2008

Please don’t mislead guys

Ok, I just want to say, please don’t mislead us. If you don’t like us “that way” just let us know. I personally have had many bad experiences like this. Because girls would be overly afectionate towords me (kiss me on the cheek, sit on my lap and the like) but apon asking them out they tell me they don’t like me “like that” and would compleatly stop talking to me. I let two women that liked me, and were great matches for me go, because I wasn’t sure if they liked me or not and I didn’t wana destroy the good friendships i had with them if they did not..

So if you are one of those “touchy feely” types, please just let us know before hand. We are bad a reading signals in the firstplace don’t make it more confuseing for us please, and thank you for reading.


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