is one of the largest alternatives sites on the internet today with Hundreds of thousands of members worldwide.  This is NOT A DATING SITE, and those of you looking for a PG site should look elsewhere.  The people who use this site know who they are and what they want.  They will be very blunt and direct, and if your posting a fake profile, you will probably be called on it. 
This site caters to the BDSM interest group (Bondage, Domination, SadoMasochism).  Explore your fantasies and wildest desires on this site.   Sign up is FREE and creates a basic profile that is entered into the members database.  As a free member you can use the search options, chat and blogs to find people in your area or others arould the world who share your interests!  Once your comfortable, it is best to subscribe to a membership that unlocks many more features (full sized photos, e-mails etc).

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The Good:

  • Hundreds of Thousands of users worldwide.  With a profiles database that large, you will surely find what your looking for
  • Blogs, Chat rooms, and groups will keep you busy and help you meet many people that share your interests/fetishes
  • WEBCAMS!  Explore the exhibitionist in you in the chat area with webcams
  • Part of the FriendFinder Network, a trusted site
  • Free basic memberships
  • Simple searches help you narrow down people to selected interests.

  The Bad:

  • Basic Membership is Free, however it will only allow you to view limited profiles of others.  In order to communicate and get the most out of this site, you will need to purchase a membership (good or bad, depending on how you look at it)
  • Beware of fake profiles.  However, these are rarely paying members, best to serach for silver and gold members. (This is a problem on almost all sites)
  • Some people complain the site runs a little slow (low bandwidth issues)

  The Facts:

Members (#): 100,000 +
Approximate cost/Month: $30
Free Membership: Yes
Free Searching: Yes
Free Mail: Yes
Live Chat:  Yes
Message Board: Yes
Member Blogs: Yes
Webcams : Yes


This site is part of the FriendFinder group of sites, including:

  • Adult FriendFinder 
  • Amigos  
  • Asia FriendFinder
  • Big Curch  
  • Filipino FriendFinder 
  • French FriendFinder 
  • FriendFinder 
  • Gay FriendFinder
  • German FriendFinder 
  • Indian FriendFinder 
  • Italian FriendFinder 
  • Jewish FriendFinder  
  • Korean FriendFinder  
  • Lesbian Personals
  • Millionaire Mate
  • Out Personals
  • Senior FriendFinder 

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